Walking On Water - a Column by Shalana Jordan

Shalana “Shay” Jordan is a single mom of two boys who’s been adjusting to her “new normal” of aHUS for over two years. She also battles with Stage 4 Kidney Disease, Lupus, May-Thurner Syndrome, and severe Anemia.

She wants to take part in helping fellow rare disease patients adjust to and prepare for the new life that’s unfolding for them. Because life does end at diagnosis.

Shay also enjoys women’s health education, fiction writing, patient advocacy, photography, cruises, and international travel. She lives in South Carolina with her two boys.

Embarrassment was an unexpected part of my aHUS journey

It’s normal to feel embarrassment, discomfort, or shame in medical situations. Being in a vulnerable state can be a humbling experience. In September 2020, I nearly died from multiorgan failure caused by atypical hemolytic uremic syndrome (aHUS). I still haven’t wrapped my head around it. I ended up…

What does it mean to be brave?

“You’re so brave.” I’ve been told this numerous times. I have a good friend who says it to me often. But how does one define bravery? When I think of bravery I think of someone fighting to right an injustice. Fighting for someone who can’t defend themselves. Or standing up…

As I Prepared for Surgery, I Dealt With End-of-Life Questions

End-of-life preparation: What a bleak and unsettling subject. Will you be buried or cremated? Who will take your children if you die young? How will your assets be dispersed? I didn’t think I’d have these concerns at age 36, when I almost died. Death is inevitable, unfortunately, but most of…

Sick and Unemployed: What Do You Do When the Money Dries Up?

Those of us living with a rare or chronic disease frequently talk about hospitalizations, medications, symptoms, fears, near-death experiences, and so much more. But something we don’t often talk about are finances. When the COVID-19 pandemic descended upon us, the International Labour Organization warned in April 2020 that nearly…

My Real Medical Journey Began After I Left the Hospital

As my eyes slowly opened, I realized my vision was blurry. My head was throbbing, and I could taste blood. My right cheek felt itchy from the fibers pressed against it. But I could feel warm sunlight bathing my left cheek. I blinked hard to get my vision to clear…