Walking On Water - a Column by Shalana Jordan

Shalana “Shay" Jordan is a single mom of two boys who's been adjusting to her “new normal" of aHUS for over two years. She also battles with Stage 4 Kidney Disease, Lupus, May-Thurner Syndrome, and severe Anemia. She wants to take part in helping fellow rare disease patients adjust to and prepare for the new life that’s unfolding for them. Because life does end at diagnosis. Shay also enjoys women’s health education, fiction writing, patient advocacy, photography, cruises, and international travel. She lives in South Carolina with her two boys.

Handling the financial burdens of a chronic illness, part 2

Second in a series. Read part one. Which is more important, your cellphone or your internet? That can be a tough decision, driven by finances and circumstances. On one hand, imagine you have a chronic illness and you need a phone for emergencies. On the other, imagine your phone…

Handling the financial burdens of a chronic illness, part 1

This column is the first in a three-part series about the financial burdens of rare diseases and chronic illnesses. $1.3 million. $1,500. $84,000. Those are some of the costs I was left with when I nearly died of atypical hemolytic uremic syndrome (aHUS) in 2020. My hospital bill for…

Losing your career and income can mean losing your identity

In American society, work life is a huge part of our culture. Many of us are pushed to complete primary school, attend higher education, and start a career, in which we’re expected to work until full retirement age. According to the Social Security Administration, that should be age 67…

When insurance guidelines hold more sway than they should

Warm tears welled up in my eyes, and I could feel my neck and face turning red. Something I’d long hoped for was slipping out of my hands. So I asked the question I was burning to ask: “I have dual enrollment. If Medicare won’t cover tirzepatide [often known by…

Masking helps hide the effects of CKD and aHUS, even from myself

Long, voluminous, deep brown wigs; charcoal eyeliner; fluffy eyelashes and lash glue; sparkly rich tones of russet and copper eyeshadow; shaped and ombre drawn eyebrows; blood red lipstick coated in shiny gloss; perfectly manicured, gold glitter acrylic overlay on my nails; and beautiful, flirty sundresses: I use them all to…

Is ageism in healthcare playing a role in my insurance battle?

I’ve always liked to think that age is just a number. Being older doesn’t mean you have less value, and being younger doesn’t mean you lack life experience. Our society seems to place more value on youth, but in the rare and chronic disease world, I’ve learned that being young…

The complications when healthcare program logistics vary by state

When you have a chronic or rare illness, healthcare becomes complicated. Adequate coverage, rising costs, and navigating unclear systems can be just as stressful as suffering with an illness. I recently moved to another state, and even though I began transitioning all of my medical care weeks before my move,…